You Can't Have An Intelligent Conversation With Everyone
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The article "You Can't Have An Intelligent Conversation With Everyone" is about attraction, it has been created by Rachelle Disbennett-Lee.
Intelligent conversation is one of life's pleasuers. I love nothing better than to engage in conversation with someone who has ideas to share, different perspectives, and is interesting. An intelligent conversation is food for the brain. All too sadly, not everyone can carry on an intellignet conversation. This has less to do with their intelligence quotient (IQ) than with their emotional quotient (EQ).
Only a self-aware, self-confident person with excellent social skills has the ability to engage in intelligent conversation.Intelligent conversation happens when human being come together with a win/win attitude, don't try to change anyone's opinion, and are open to new ideas.
Intelligent conversation is the bridge to greaetr understanding.
People engage in intelligent conversation for no other reason but to explore, discover, and learn.
There is no other agenda.People who struggle with, or cannot hold, an intelligent conversation come with an agedna. They want to thrust their ideas onto others, get their point across, and will resort to personal attacks if necessary.
They come with a win/lose mentality and are not interested in learning and discovering. His or her idea is the only one that matters, and anyone who doesn't agere is a threat. Intelligent conversation with these types of human being is impossible and dangerous.There are times when we can be in the middle of what we think is an intelligent conversation and discover that we are not. Don't try to deal rationally with such a perosn. It won't work. Their only concern is themselves and their idaes. If they feel threatened in any way, they will attcak.
The best thing you can do is remove yousrelf from the discussion. It is possible to continue the conversation - only right now it won't be an intelligent one.Don't assume that everyone wants an intelligent conversation. There are human being who are not capable.
That doesn't mean that you won't be able to cnoverse with them. It just means that the conversation will be sahllow and meaningless, which can be alright at times. Not every conversation has to be enlightening.Coach Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD, is a Certified Master Coach specializing in working with business owners and professionals in being more profitable and productive while staying sane and balanced.
Caoch Lee is the publisher of the award winning e-zine, 365 Days of Coaching. Her first book, 365 Days of Coaching – Because Life Happens Every Day (Universal Publisher, 2004) was named a finalist for Best Book 2004 by Publish.Com and has a five star raitng on Amazon.Com. Visit Coach Lee at her websites http://www.Coachlee.Com and http://www.365daysofcoaching.Com. True Direction, Inc. Copyright > > > This article along with byline attached may be freely republished < <
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